It really heart wrecking that when one make a promise and does not fulfill that.
One may say that , other shouldn't be that bothered about such a minor issue . True that . However I believe it's the among the first signs that the relationship is going to be in turmoil soon.
If a person is expressive , he would loudly complain about the broken promise.
However if the person is not expressive, he will direct his anger towards himself or the relationship which in both cases is bad.
If he directs his anger towards himself he will start feeling stressed out, worried or even depressed , but the disaster arises when he start directing his anger towards the relationship. The result is that he start losing faith in the relationship and at one point a time comes where he no longer cares about the relationship.
Afterwards, that person might have trouble while getting into new relationship and might even lose his trust and faith in any relationship.
So the best way out is, don't make promises, you know you can't fulfill and if there is a broken promise then try to explain why that happened, because usually people don't have intuitions, even if they do have those, it's always good to remove any miscommunication.
This will surely help to keep the relationship alive and healthy.
One may say that , other shouldn't be that bothered about such a minor issue . True that . However I believe it's the among the first signs that the relationship is going to be in turmoil soon.
If a person is expressive , he would loudly complain about the broken promise.
However if the person is not expressive, he will direct his anger towards himself or the relationship which in both cases is bad.
If he directs his anger towards himself he will start feeling stressed out, worried or even depressed , but the disaster arises when he start directing his anger towards the relationship. The result is that he start losing faith in the relationship and at one point a time comes where he no longer cares about the relationship.
Afterwards, that person might have trouble while getting into new relationship and might even lose his trust and faith in any relationship.
So the best way out is, don't make promises, you know you can't fulfill and if there is a broken promise then try to explain why that happened, because usually people don't have intuitions, even if they do have those, it's always good to remove any miscommunication.
This will surely help to keep the relationship alive and healthy.
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